The other title for this blog is: How to make the most of your first Speed Dating experience. For example, if you're usually introverted, give yourself a pep talk beforehand that, of course, everyone in the room likes you and thinks you're cool. And smile, smile, smile. That is one thing I learned from waitressing in Hawai'i is how to show the aloha spirit and that is to smile constantly. It's a skill. No matter if it's conjured up and not a natural instant reaction. Practice smiling spontaneously and constantly at home. A real, genuine, aloha smile. Not frozen to your face kind.
